Happened to visit a blog and noticed one of the post, which I think that it would be nice if it is read by some of my friends who are confronting problems in their relationship.
It's about the emotion of possessiveness in the journey of love which is like a tug to many out there.
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I once had a friend who grew to be very close to me. Once when we were sitting at the edge of a swimming pool, she filled the palm of her hand with some water and held it before me, and said this: “You see this water carefully contained on my hand? It symbolizes Love.”
This was how I saw it:
As long as you keep your hand gently open and allow it to remain there, it will always be there. However, if you attempt to close your fingers round it and try to posses it, it will spill through the first cracks it finds. This is the greatest mistake that people do when they meet love. They try to posses, own, demand, and expect… and just like the water spilling out of your hand, love will retrieve from you.
For love is meant to be free, you cannot change its nature. If there are people you love, allow them to be free beings. There are certain lessons and learnings in life, that demand conscious effort from our side to put them to practice and awareness always helps in defining our perspective. Love like joy and cheer is meant to be shared and isn’t limited like a piece of cake.
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Yeah, it sounds like a very simple perspective but how many of us could actually internalize it?
Chauvinism and possessiveness overdrive are just the poisons own by those losers to cause struggle and kill their god-given relationships.
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