道歉

以前我总会觉得

一个人道歉的 价值/歉意, 是他道歉次数的反比例

当他觉得他所犯下的过错总是可以以一句对不起来解决的话
那他的诚信是足以媲美粪便
或比它更出色

或是,
当别人一直对你道歉时
你就会觉得
你所做的一切, 都是对的
从而造就你那不可一世的理所当然
是恶心的。。。

因此,
我会觉得,对不起是很贵重的一句话
一些本来道歉就可以解决的事情
也因为这种执着而常搞得不欢而散

是斗气?

是面子??

当然,
这种心理是随着年龄和思想而改变的

其实
道歉, 在意的不是谁对谁错

而是
一句真心的对不起
代表着你对那份感情的在意
对那个人的重视
多过于你自己,还有你的自尊心

hmmm

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"Do not worry about the people from the PAST,

there is a reason

they did not make it to your FUTURE."

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N' Dubz - Comfortable

It was 2004 i was sweet 16
Driving through north west to all you want to find
On the dual carriage way
With the wind in my face
You would pick me up every saturday
You would always be late, but i was willing to wait for you
I didn't know at the time that by years down the line
I'm still waiting for you

And I never imagined we would make it
You, you were my fantasy boy
And this, it was my dream come true
But it's nothing like I expected
I know in time that people change
I was foolish to think we'd stay the same
But I don't wanna loose my best friend
Tell me if this is love or am I just to comfortable

To comfortable
Tell me if this is love or am I just to comfortable

2006 I just turned 18
I'm starting to grow up now
Had enough of your shit
Said it was time for a change
Said you were feeling the same
You committed and gave me the love that i craved
You were so hard to trust
After all that you put me through
But when i gave you the chance
I really thought it would last
We were so in love

And I never imagined we would make it
You, you were my fantasy boy
And this, it was my dream come true
But it's nothing like i expected
I know in time that people change
I was foolish to think we'd stay the same
But I don't wanna loose my best friend
Tell me if this is love or am i just to comfortable

To comfortable
Tell me if this is love or am i just to comfortable

Take a good look at me
Look how i've changed
Cos I ain't half the person i used to be
I tried to wanna make it right
You tried to wanna start a fight
There was nothing left of me
My heart is full of hate and spite
Who the hell is this person
That's standing in front of me

Oh baby, please help me, i'm loosing my best friend

But I know in time that people change
I was foolish to think we'd stay the same
But I don't wanna loose my best friend
Tell me if this is love or am I just to comfortable

I know in time that people change
I was foolish to think we'd stay the same
But I don't wanna loose my best friend
Tell me if this is love or am I just to comfortable

Or am I just to comfortable

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SUDOKU


This game has been in my iPod Touch since I had my iPod and surprisingly, I play this game most of the time...Like when I was waiting for buses or after eating at canteen. Not to say that it's a boring game (maybe for most of the people out there) In fact, I found it quite interesting and worth playing =)

Well, the point of writing this entry is none other than SHOWING OFF the high scores that I just achieved recently, DURING EXAM PERIOD =D


The greatest "achievement" that I have so far.
Level : Hard ( 50 out of 81 cells to be filled )
Time used : 1:50 ( Wahahahaha)

I am challenging the next level, Insane which is the highest level of this game after this high score

So far.....

Level : Insane ( 53 out of 81 cells to be filled)
Time : 6:43 ( okok la...)

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like i have nothing better to do right?
ohh well, it's 6.5 hours to my 1st paper :s

wish me luck ^^
有些东西

是真的不必想那么多

自然就好

虽然 。。。我曾经想过

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平常心

真的有那么平常吗?

我只觉得, 它是最不容易拥有的东西


自身度外的态度不是时常行得通

表面上, 无关痛痒

可是,

感性的内心, 却是充满着渴望。。。期待。。。


这一次,

我有点不懂了。。。

Managing STRESS

*Please click the cross button on the top right corner if you DO NOT want to read anything about EXAM*

THIS IS A SERIOUS TOPIC


HP802 - Working in the 21st Century.

It is a module that I think I shouldn't have taken in this semester at all except Korean Language,why would I make my last semester such a disaster sia??? The materials in this module are damn dry laaaaaaaa.......and it's freaking suffering to look at all the notes *yawn* But then, after reading through his notes for 9 hours, I finally found something interesting...it's about how to manage stress though...

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STRESS
It's something that everyone would experience it, be it from yourself or the people surrounding you. It is normal to have a certain level of stress and we do need to have that amount of stress to remain alert and to work to our best. However, when the stress level becomes excessive, it could cause physical and psychological effect on the person who couldn't cope with that level of stress and it might be harmful. Depression and burnout are the examples of experiencing prolong stress.

Ways to manage stress

Attention to lifestyle
Mental Health is the balance between all aspects of life, be it socially, physically, spiritually and emotionally. If we are doing too much or too little in our lives, mental health can suffer.
Good balance between work or study and leisure pursuits is needed.

Social contact
having contact with companies we enjoy to be with,
To develop social interaction

Reviewing our lives from time to time
Consider what our aims and goals in life are and whether we are taking steps to achieve them
Problems are less likely to arise if our life is satisfying and fulling

Awareness of how mind and body interact
State of mental health could affect physical health, and vice versa
Sleep, exercise and diet should be adequate

Having people in our lives we trust
It is important to have someone to go with our problems and worries
So that you can be whiny???

Awareness of what can go wrong
Be conscious of what can go wrong
Realize that tiredness and irritability might lead to serious stress problems if they are ignored

Taking steps to resolve problems
Be aware of problems and seek help if necessary


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SEE!!!
I HAVE TOLD YOU

THIS IS A SERIOUS TOPIC!!!

SOLEMN ME
=p

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